Suggestions for exams or procedures in the mouth
- Simply asking, "Are you comfortable?" "Is there anything you need?" can be helpful.
- Be aware of the long-term effects of sexual abuse, including how it can affect dental treatment or oral exams. 38
- It can be useful to designate a stopping-signal, such as raising a hand/finger if they want the provider to stop. 39
- Be empathetic and understanding
- Respond to disclosure
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You may want to respond with something along the lines of: "I am very
sorry that happened to you. And I am very glad that you felt able to tell
me. Is there any way I can help now?"
Things to watch for that might indicate the patient is being triggered
- The patient's breathing: quick shallow breaths, irregular breathing, stop/start
breathing are all signs that they might need you to stop and take a break, even if they have not raised their hand/finger. 39 - They may make a small movement or a small sound, but when you ask them if they are alright, they do not respond. 39
- Spontaneous tears (no accompanying sobs or sounds, just tears leaking from your patient's eyes).
- Observe if your patient keeps eye contact. For some patients this is very important. 39
- Extreme startle response